[SEL] Austral tool box
Jack Watson
nadejack at optusnet.com.au
Mon Apr 4 20:15:44 PDT 2005
Dave Rotigel wrote:
> At 09:46 PM 4/4/2005, you wrote:
>
>> G'day Dwight, I often have wondered about your question myself as I
>> also only have a couple of spare nuts and bolts in my Austral tool box.
>
>
> Can someone please tell me why so many people answer a question asked
> to the List simply saying that they don't know shit about the question
> asked.
> Dave
>
==============
Dave, since you asked the question, I think the psychologists would say
that this is positive feed-back.
In a visual type conversation, the participants would be nodding their
heads, indicating that they were following the conversation: not
necessarily agreeing with it.
In the case of telephone conversations, we tend to say Yes, Yes, Uhuh,
from time to time. So here we may occasionally email "Yes, me too". The
actual words are not important, just the indication of acceptance of the
theme.
I do know that I find it off-putting and get a feeling that my input is
unworthy of acknowledgement when I make a comment and get the Easter
Island Statue response - no feed-back, however how trivial.
Is this so bad?
Jack on Oz
==============
More information about the sel
mailing list